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Let’s Talk About Sex: My Boyfriend Is Always Watching Porn

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Q: I am a 26-year-old woman and my boyfriend is 30. We have been dating for almost a year now. My main concern is that he watches a lot of adult films. He tried to hide it in the beginning so I did not really know how bad it was. But now, I’ve noticed that he watches them late into the night.

I think he watches too much porn but when I bring it up, he says he just watches it to relax. I also think it’s starting to affect our sex life. When he’s watching porn on his phone, he sometimes makes no move to touch me. When I make a move, he brushes me off. How can I make him stop watching porn?

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A: You can’t – and shouldn’t – help him break this habit. This really isn’t something you can make someone else do. He will only stop if you want to. Is he watching too much porn? Probably. But the bigger problem here is that it’s messing with your sex life.

Here’s the thing, if you approach him and attack his porn-watching habit, he’s very likely to feel ashamed. This will not solve the problem, instead, it will only create new ones and may simply push him to work harder to hide his extra-curricular activities from you.

So, you should have a different conversation with him. Start with letting him know that you understand he may have a strong sex drive and if he watches porn to relax, that’s mostly his business. But your own need for sex is starting to take a back seat and that isn’t working for you.

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Explain that having a satisfactory sex life is important to you and his porn habit is standing in the way. If things don’t change for the better, be prepared to walk out the door.

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