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3 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life

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In a loving, healthy relationship, sex is like the oil that lubricates the engine so that’s why you must always try to spice up your sex life.

Turning sex into something that is done in a routine way can make it very boring and this is something you don’t want to happen. What should you then do if you notice your lovemaking is becoming more of a chore than a fun activity?

3 ways to spice up your sex life
1. Be spontaneous

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One of the things that makes sex boring is routine – doing the same thing every time, and in the same place. Surprise your partner with an unexpected romp in the kitchen or the guest room. Switch things up a little. If you’ve been stuck on missionary style for months, try some other creative styles like doggy, reverse cowgirl, etc. Anything goes, as long as both of you are enjoying it and quite comfortable with it as well.

2. Seduction


Being with your man for so long could make you forget what it was like way back when you were still trying to impress him with your sexy moves. Bring those days back and reignite the spark of your sex life. Wear some sexy lingerie, organise a candlelight dinner, do your own version of ‘Magic Mike’ kinda strip tease. Throw in your favourite R&B music. Make it cheesy and funny. A little role playing isn’t a bad idea too. Don’t forget that the purpose of this is for you two to have some fun that is not business as usual.

3. Get away


You guys could arrange a weekend getaway to somewhere serene and romantic. A change of scenery can do wonders to your libido. Check into a hotel, order your favourite meal with a delicious bottle of wine. With this, you really don’t need to try too hard; the atmosphere will set the right vibes for you.

What fun thing have you ever tried to spice up your sex life?

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Jola Sotubo :‘Jola Sotubo is a retired tomboy who's learning to enjoy the finer things in life. She loves writing, adores Manolo Blahniks, and can't wait to own a red Lamborghini. She's the author of "Love Letter To My Ex" a story of love and forgiveness. Email: jola@zumi.ng.