Toke Makinwa is on the news again, this time it’s because she agrees with some hot relationship advice given online. Earlier today a post made rounds on instagram it goes like this
I see men leave five to ten year relationships turn around and get married to a woman he’s known for only 6 months and he does it all the things his ex always begged him to do. Word of advice, stop preaching to this men; they hear you. He’s not going to be the man you want him to be because you’re not the woman he wants to be with. People change for who they want.
As expected, this post resonated with a lot of people but most significantly Toke Makinwa. She shared her comment where she spoke about women loving themselves enough to swallow the painful truth and walk away. She also said some important things relating to her past relationships with you know who.
According to her, it has nothing to do with you. Stop blaming yourself for not receiving the kind of love you give up, sometimes these things don’t work because they are just not meant to be and that’s ok.
She also adds:
“People don’t change for who they want, people change when the time is right and quite frankly growth happens when you let it.”
The takeaway; “love yourself enough to swallow that jagged little pill co truth and walk away with your head high you meet your own thing and you wont need to beg or force him to treat you right ladies this one is for you.”
She couldn’t have said it any better sometimes you just need to let go and let God.