Many people find it difficult to avoid making these first-time sex mistakes. Having sex with someone for the first time can be nervewracking and you may feel a little unsure of yourself. But if you want to get your relationship off to the best start, then keep these three things in mind.
Don’t overdo it
It’s natural to want to impress your partner but don’t overdo it by trying crazy sex positions and moves because you want to show off how much of a bedroom pro you are. You are taking a couple of risks here. For one thing, you don’t even know if this is something your partner will be into. Just because it sounds hot does not make it hot for everyone. Plus, if it goes wrong, you may end up having a very awkward and terrible experience. So this is definitely one of the first-time sex mistakes to avoid. Just keep things simple. As you get more comfortable with each other, you can then begin to experiment.
Don’t fake an orgasm
This is a lose-lose for all involved. Don’t fake an orgasm because you think it will protect the guy’s ego and make him feel good. This is to your own detriment. It’s okay not to cum that first time (most women don’t) and if that happens, you can work together so he knows what pleases you. However, if you fake it, you end up setting a bad precedent and may need to continue faking it for the whole relationship because your partner thinks his moves that first time works. If you try to switch things up later, he won’t feel good knowing you have been faking it all this time. So, be honest about your orgasm from the beginning to avoid later discomfort.
Don’t obsess over how you look
Most people don’t choose to have sex hoping to score their partner’s bodies. So, stop thinking so much about how you must look to him naked. This will distract you from all the fun you should be having. If he has a problem with how you look, chances are he won’t be in bed with you in the first place. And if he’s more focused on your flaws during sex than pleasing you, then it’s a sign that you should kick him to the curb anyway. So be sexy, confident and focus on having a great time.
Being honest in the bedroom and avoiding these first-time sex mistakes will definitely make things that much simpler and enjoyable in your relationship.
For more tips on first-time sex, check out how to blow his mind and make a good first impression.
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