A lot of women find that they don’t achieve orgasm through quickies. Because the female body requires some time to get warmed up through some form of foreplay, it makes sense that many of us just don’t find spontaneous sex appealing.
But there are a few things you can do to turn things around.
Step 1 – Initiate
If you’re the one initiating a quickie, you at least get a couple of minutes to warm up to the idea. In fact, you can even plan a couple here and there. So even though it comes unexpectedly to him, you get some time to prepare and get turned on before getting started.
Step 2 – Go traditional
Quickies are not a time to try positions that will have you focusing more on not tripping and falling than on your pleasure. Go for basic sex moves like the missionary wherever possible. This way, you are not doing much and are very likely to cum without distractions.
Step 3 – Bump and grind
While ramming in and out of you can be super hot for him, it may not do it for you. If this is the case, have him alternate between grinding against you and the in-and-out penetration movement. When he grinds he’s more likely to stimulate your clitoris, giving you a chance of an explosive orgasm.
Step 4 – Talk dirty
Moans and grunts are not enough if you want to achieve orgasm during quickies. To get the best out of the short time you have, you must amp things up by talking dirty. Express your naughty desires and hear him reveal his.
Step 5: Just have fun
Okay, you may not orgasm during a quickie but you can definitely have fun and be satisfied. So try not to put too much pressure on yourself and your man. Apart from being pleasurable, quickies make you feel alive and sexy. So just focus on those good feelings.
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