Is it time to break up with your man? Sometimes relationships can hit rock bottom and what was once fun becomes a pain in the backside. Every relationship will have its issues, so don’t expect a smooth ride But there are some warning signs that show your relationship is over and it’s time to say goodbye. Wondering what they are? Read on to find out some signs that it’s time to break up with your man:
1. You’re being abused
This is a no-brainer actually. A person who loves you truly will not abuse you. Love does not hurt. So if you’re experiencing any kind of abuse, whether physical, emotional, verbal or otherwise, it’s time to call it quits.
2. You have nothing to talk about
If all you can ask each other is “have you eaten?” after two minutes of silence, then maybe it’s time to rethink your relationship. Communication is one of the ingredients of a successful relationship so if you have nothing to say each other, then maybe you shouldn’t be together.
3. You can’t see a future with him
If you come up blank every time you try to imagine a future with your man, then your relationship is probably over. You both should grow together as you relationship evolves, so if you are no longer on the same page, you might have outgrown each other.
4. You’re always lying and pretending
If you have to lie, keep up appearances and pretend to be someone you’re not, then it’s time to say goodbye. A relationship built on a lie will be a lie in itself. You deserve someone who will love you for you.
5. He’s cheating on you
If your man is cheating on you, then it’s time to end the relationship. If you cope with his cheating, he will see it as an excuse to continue. Also, you deserve better. You deserve someone who knows that you’re worthy of love and respect.
A relationship should improve your life and not worsen it, so if you find yourself losing value instead of growing then it’s probably time to break up with your man.
Before you go, here are three habits that can ruin your relationship.